Join The Strength’s Revolution
Nearly four decades ago, long before the term political correctness was a thing, I fought against the terminology used to describe the people group I had been thrust into at age twenty-two when I broke my neck.
Because language shapes perception and perception shapes language, there is nothing honoring, strengthening or positive about the terms disabled and/or handicapped. And yet, these terms are still the universal nomenclature for men, women and children who through birth, accident or injury find themselves a part of this people group. Not only must they hear the de-valuing language used to describe them, but they also must use it in reference to themselves and others (I have steadfastly refused in every way possible, throughout my life as a sit-down person, to use these terms).
I wrote about this in chapter sixteen, Mirror, Mirror on the wall, in my book. The hidden pearl unearthed from our pain, the resilient response to combat injustice is with righteous indignation. This is my attempt at it.
This is not about identity politics or inclusivity (we are sick to death of those diatribes) but rather an appeal to our shared sense of respect and a global desire to commit to a language-shift that honors one another. And my gosh folks, while I’m on my soapbox and you’re taking the time to read this, shouldn’t we want to honor all people and control what kind of language comes out of our mouths, period?
“The difference between the right word and the almost-right word is the difference between lightning and a lightning bug.”
So here’s what I am asking you to do.
By Joining the Strength’s Revolution and signing the pledge, you are personally committing to a Language-Shift for my people group; and re-affirming a strength-based psychology model. That’s it. No policing, no one checking up on you, no coercion.
I know some of you are probably thinking, “Ok, but what language should I use?” That is up to you, your conscience, and some serious thought as to what honoring words you would choose. But I will leave those of you who need just a few samples, some of my thoughts:
I prefer using the word accessible for parking spots, bathrooms, homes, businesses, etc. Wheelchair friendly or unfriendly is another expression.
One of my monikers is “sit-down person in a stand-up world” so referring to me as my friend who is a sit-down person, as I refer to myself, is a respectful description. Some use physically (mentally, circumferentially, follically) challenged or differently-abled but now I’ve just gotten into clichés and they can be somewhat loathsome.
There you go. And thank you. Together, we can make the world a better place.
People Have Signed the Pledge!
I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something. I will not refuse to do the something I can do.
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